Over the Walls of Anger Into Each Others Arms

Over the Walls of Anger, into Each Other's Arms

Managing Anger Through The Lens of Attachment Theory

Anger Management for Individuals or Couples

Are you frustrated and angry, feeling alone and unheard in your relationship? Afraid of what to do or say, fearing that whatever you do might take you past a point of no return? Do you fight your partner’s loudness with silence? 

Are you an individual needing anger management for personal development, or needing court-ordered anger management?


We offer two options: attend therapy in person or online; or purchase the book.

This practical program and book takes you through steps of anger management- building emotional intelligence, stress management, communication skills and conflict resolution – with a focus on attachment styles that contribute to the turmoil in which you find yourselves.  Attachment theory explains how fear, shame, depression or anxiety are natural responses that contribute to anger and your cycle. 


Let us help you! 

 In Over the Walls of Anger, Susan Armitage offers a well-designed and thoughtful focus upon anger as a psychological as well as behavioral pattern. One main achievement is that she makes attachment theory relevant to anger management clients and counselors. Most of her chapters begin with a couple quarreling, then describes the problematic emotional cycle that has arisen between them, goes on to describe how such cycles are developed and maintained, and then concludes with sensible questions designed to help readers address the personal relevance of that chapter’s topic. More specific advice is offered near the conclusion of the book, adding impact to the volume. I highly recommend this book for couples working together on their anger issues as well as individuals concerned about how their anger affects their intimate relationships.

Ronald Potter-Efron, M.SW, Ph.D.,

Author of over twenty books, including Angry All the Time, Letting Go of Shame, and Healing the Angry Brain.

Registered Marriage and Family Therapist

Registered Psychotherapist

Certified Anger Management Specialist

Susan heads a Counselling team, where they run the Over the Walls of Anger Program for individuals and couples, which is based on her book Over the Walls of Anger, Into Each Other’s Arms:  Managing Anger, Through the Lens of Attachment Theory.

Our Program:

*  Over the Walls of Silence   *  Over the Walls of Stress   *  And much more


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345 Lakeshore Rd. E., #506, Oakville, ON L6J 1J5

Uxbridge, ON

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Notice to clients and potential clients:  At this difficult time of learning to cope with the fear and anxiety you may be experiencing due to COVID-19 or Corona Virus in our communities, we are offering:

*   Tele-counselling (Online or by phone) only as we are not meeting in person at present

*   Lowered fees until the end of April, to further assist you, given many fearing financial struggles. The sliding scale for sessions with our intern is now between $10 to $40 per 50-minute session.

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